Foundational work for Future Memory usage improvements

This commit doesn't do much on its own, but adds a new Java Cleaner API
that lets us hook into Garbage Collector events to reclaim pooled objects and
return them to the pool.

Adds framework for Network Packets to know when a packet has finished dispatching
to get an idea when a packet is done sending to players.

Rewrites PooledObjects impl to properly respect max pool size and remove
almost all risk of contention.

Bumps the Paper Async Task Queue to use 2 threads, and properly shuts it down on shutdown.

Spigot-Server-Patches/Optimize-UserCache-Thread-Safe.patch

@@ -14,7 +14,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..00000000000000000000000000000000
 --- a/src/main/java/net/minecraft/server/MinecraftServer.java
 +++ b/src/main/java/net/minecraft/server/MinecraftServer.java
 @@ -0,0 +0,0 @@ public abstract class MinecraftServer extends IAsyncTaskHandlerReentrant<TickTas
-         // Spigot start
+         } catch (java.lang.InterruptedException ignored) {} // Paper
          if (org.spigotmc.SpigotConfig.saveUserCacheOnStopOnly) {
              LOGGER.info("Saving usercache.json");
 -            this.getUserCache().c();